When people make us frustrated an engrained response is...
"I just want to strangle that person" We say that, we feel better
no big deal.
But what a terrible thing to say. I mean, yeah we all get frustrated, but do we really want to restrict that person's ability to breath in their life?
of course not
yet we say it all the time
Let's change the acceptance of this term, so our children and our children's children don't want to strangle people.
its not a very nice thing to do ;-)